Asking someone for an informational interview can feel awkward, especially if you’ve never done it before. What do you say? What if they ignore you? The good news is: most people are open to helping, especially if you keep it short, respectful, and genuine. This article walks you through exactly what to say and how to feel confident doing it.
1. Who to Ask
- Someone who’s in a job you’re curious about
- Someone who studied a major you’re considering
- A recent grad is often a great choice; they remember what it was like to be in your shoes
You don’t need to know them personally. A connection through school, a mutual friend, or social media is often enough.
2. What to Say (and Keep It Short)
Here’s a simple message you can adapt depending on whether you’re emailing or messaging:
Subject: Student exploring college majors, quick question?
Message:
Hi [Name],
My name is [Your Name], and I’m a high school student exploring college majors. I came across your profile and saw that you studied [Their Major]/work in [Their Field]. I’m hoping to learn more about what that’s really like.
Would you be open to a 15-20 minute chat sometime soon? I’m not looking for a jo , just hoping to learn from your experience.
Thanks so much either way!
[Your Name]
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3. Tips for Following Up
- If you don’t hear back in a week, it’s okay to send a gentle follow-up
- Be polite, brief, and thank them again for their time
- If they say no or don’t reply, don’t take it personally, try someone else!
4. What If You’re Nervous or Don’t Know Anyone?
That’s totally normal. Most students feel unsure the first time they reach out. That’s one reason MajorMentor exists, we’ve done the work of finding grads and recording their stories. You can explore interviews on your own schedule, even before you feel ready to do one yourself.
Informational Interviews for Students Who Are Shy or Anxious
Final Thought
The hardest part is hitting send. Once you do, most people are flattered, not bothered, to be asked. Even one short conversation can spark clarity you won’t find anywhere else.